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How connection actually works
eight gentle, evidence-based ideas the rest builds on
/kiˈʃi/ · Turkish for “person” — n., the one you already are
Dating help that respects your intelligence.
Tell us a little about you, and we’ll put together a kit that’s genuinely yours — real places, real outfits, the reasoning behind every call, written down and sourced. The why, not just the vibes. No scores, no games, no catfish.
3 minutes in · a web page + PDF · yours to keep
01 // what you get
Sixteen sections, all about you.
The same care as the hand-built kit kishi grew out of — every suggestion sourced, every piece linked to a real shop we actually priced, every place real and checked.
01–07
Looking like you
your cut, your palette, a 20-piece capsule you’ll actually wear, ten looks, the shoot plan, the finishing touches, an easy routine
08–12
Meeting & connecting
the local culture, the real rooms where you’ll meet people, your profile in plain numbers, how conversation actually works, the dates
13–15
Your head & your plan
who actually fits you, a gentle 30/60/90, a one-page cheat sheet
02 // how it works
A few honest questions, then a kit you can actually use.
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Tell us about you
A few photos (optional), your age, city, a handful of real interests, who you’re hoping to meet, and what has to work for you — under three minutes.
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We do the thinking
We pull from real research — seasonal color, what flatters, where people actually meet — to fill sixteen sections made for you. AI helps with the words; it never makes up the facts.
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Make it yours
An interactive web kit plus a print-perfect PDF: tick the checklist, book the appointment, pick your two rooms, and ease into the 30/60/90.
03 // a real one
See exactly what you get.
We ran the pipeline for one sample person and left the whole kit open — sixteen sections, real places and prices, the reasoning behind every call. No sign-up, no email.
your read · palette · ten looks · a shoot plan · real venues · a 30/60/90 — all rendered
Read the sample kit →04 // an honest comparison
Not that. This.
Most of this category sells you exposure, insecurity, or a price you can’t sustain. Here’s the honest difference — and what kishi does instead.
| Criterion | A dating app | A “looksmaxxing” app | A €2,000 coach | kishi |
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| What it sells | Exposure & matches | A score, then “fixes” | Bespoke time | Actually being ready |
| Treats you as | A profile in a queue | A face to rate | A client | The person you already are |
| Scores or shame | Quietly, yes | The whole point | Usually none | None, ever |
| Shows its reasoning | Vibes | Pseudo-metrics | Their expertise | Yes — sourced & cited |
Exposure isn’t readiness; a score isn’t a self; and you shouldn’t need €2,000 to get dressed. kishi is the readiness in the middle — at the price of the photo session it replaces.
05 // the promises we keep
Honest, all the way down.
Every AI render of you is a styling reference — a mood board for a real shoot, never a profile photo. Connection built on a face that isn’t yours falls apart on date one, and that’s not what we’re here for.
no catfishing
Renders carry a visible reference label. The kit helps you brief a photographer, never fake a face.
never shaming
No scores, no ratings, no “flaws”. Your kit starts from what’s already working — plus the small things that help, only if you want them.
not your doctor
Hair medicine, skin actives, health needs: the kit surfaces options and the questions to ask a clinician. It never prescribes.
06 // pricing
Start free. Keep what you love.
the mirror · free
$0
Your read, your palette, the eight ideas, and two full sections — enough to feel whether we get you.
the kit · most loved
$43 once
All sixteen sections, your shoppable checklist, ten rendered looks, the six-shot plan, PDF, one re-run — yours forever.
plus
$16/mo
Every kit unlocked while you’re subscribed; re-runs and new-city kits included, plus a seasonal refresh.
pro
$27/mo
Plus, plus the likeness tier: likeness renders, profile copy to A/B, and a monthly photo look-over.
07 // asked often
Fair questions.
Is this a dating app?
No. No matching, no chat, no swiping. kishi makes you a readiness kit — the kind of thing a thoughtful stylist and a good friend would put together — and then gets out of your way.
Will you make AI photos for my dating profile?
No — and that’s on purpose. Paid kits render styling references with your likeness so you can plan a real shoot. Apps verify faces, and a gap between photo and reality only backfires on date one. Our promise is printed on every render.
What do you do with my photos?
Styling read only, with your explicit consent: coloring, face shape, hair. Never used to train models, auto-deleted after generation, and deletable by you anytime. Full details on the privacy page.
Who’s kishi for?
Anyone who wants dating to feel a bit more like themselves — every gender, every orientation. The kit asks who you are and who you’re hoping to meet, then builds around what’s genuinely universal: color, fit, care, getting seen, the way connection actually works. Where our research is deepest for one group so far (today: men dating women), your kit says so plainly instead of pretending. It grows, group by group.
Which cities do you cover?
Any city on earth — name yours and it gets looked at on first ask. Where we’ve done the legwork you get hand-checked places with dates and prices (Hamburg and Berlin today; more get researched as people ask); everywhere else you get honest finders — real ways to find your rooms, never made-up places. The wizard tells you which one your city is on before you build.
I have a health thing that affects how clothes fit.
Tell the onboarding, if you’d like. Things like gut comfort become real filters — comfort waists, skim-not-cling cuts, date plans that flex — never afterthoughts. And the kit never plays doctor.
08 // Build your kitBring yourself and a little courage.